Life is so peculiar!! The afternoon nap that my parents always prevented is now deliberately so welcome at this age!!I have never seen my mom lying down on the bed & taking nap in the afternoon!! We all girls also were also not allowed to do that!! But the cycle of life & time keeps eternally moving!!
This past days in my friend R-Behal's point of view were,"Diarrhea". Straight 10 days of dinners at friend's homes!! Ha ha......I know what she meant!! Once the one dinner starts & everybody wants to do that.... and then for days we don't see each others!!!!! I skipped today & rested well!! R-Behl is my friend from old gang...& brings the comfort zone. She is a smart,intelligent,& sometimes arrogant lady....but our nature goes well together!! We can tease each other a lot. After A-Kothary I think I could go well with her!!! I like to flirt with her handsome husband C-Behl!!!! ha ha ha.....!!
The day has been spend doing nothing watched movies changing channels on the TV.Read newspaper & I noted a dialogue,"Insaan ki ek dukhti rag uski har taakat se badi hoti hai".( A person's single weakness is stronger than his strengths) That's so bloody true!! Everybody has some weakness,which will put them in a such corner where their all strentghs won't work!! Specially when you a vulnerable!!
In every family,friendship & society there are people who will make you comfortable,will put you at ease and assuring you that they are with you. They make you feel at home.There are lot of people around you are very eager to exploit your negativity.And most of us do have some let down moments or insecurity and here we let ourselves trap in their so finely woven net!! They surly knows what to look out with sympathy & smile they pumps you for information.They even gives you some little hints or says some in your favors to encourages you to speak up......and you become vulnerable!!! You loosen up,let down your guards and say something you wouldn't in your alert moments!! It is when we open ourselves that we are at our most vulnerable!!
In a moment of weakness you are most prone to let go and spill it all out. And Boom..... satisfied they runs back where they came from and uses the information to their own advantage or against you before you realise!! It is only later you realise they get you to bare all but never ever shared any of their important info's. Your one weak moment does you a life time harm!!That has happened with me.....with my family & friends!!I need to guard more my weaknesses....I have to be more alert now!! I should give more importance to my weaknesses!!
None can make us feel inferior without our consent!!!
love always billa driftwood.
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